How are you and God doing?
How are you, AND your family, and God doing?
Simply put, having a pulse on spiritual matters means knowing where you and your family stand with God.
Have you heard from Him lately? Are you building a daily altar? Do your children know Him and walk with Him? (Or, if they are young, do they at least know the fundamentals of our faith?)
Questions to consider:
Here's why I, as a husband and father, need to stand before God in prayer for my family, and have a continual pulse on spiritual matters:
1) Because the enemy wants to kill us
2) Because God wants to give us life!
*The story of Eli and his sons has a few lessons that can help improve the way you view God, understand his promises, and live your life. If you are unfamiliar with the story, it’s found in 1 Samuel 2:12-36.
In summary, Eli and his sons were priests, but the sons were mistreating God’s people and sacrifices. Eli didn’t do enough to stop them, resulting in them and their family line being punished.
So, what are the lessons from the story?
1. Fear God More Than Man
The first lesson from the story of Eli and his sons is to fear God more than man. As you may know, “to fear” can mean different things, but in this context, I’m using it to mean respect or honor. Eli’s response to the behavior of his sons showed that he feared them more than God. In turn, God’s response to Eli is a reminder that we should fear him most.
Eli Valued His Sons More Than God
The Bible states that Eli “was aware of what his sons were doing to the people of Israel” (1 Samuel 2:22 NLT). That awareness appeared to be more than just a knowing but rather an acceptance. Why? God told Eli that he gave his sons more honor than Him even after he rebuked them.
Although his sons were the ones the story show were doing wrong, God told Eli: “Why do you scorn my sacrifice and offering that I prescribed for my dwelling? Why do you honor your sons more than me by fattening yourselves on the choice parts of every offering made by my people Israel?” (1 Samuel 2:29 NIV)
Show That You Fear God More Than Man
Learning from God’s response to Eli, we should show a greater fear of God over men by going beyond passively rebuking sin. We should make every effort to make things right especially if those who are sinning are under our authority.
Often times we are afraid to stand up for what is right because we may be labeled as weird or left out of the group, but when we don’t we honor people more than God. Jesus said: “Whoever is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of them when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels”. (Luke 9:26 NIV)
2. God’s Promises Are Conditional
The second lesson to note from the story of Eli and his sons is that God’s promises are conditional. One may think that because God promises something it will happen no matter what, but that’s not the case. His promises are usually attached to conditions and as we see with Eli and his sons, they can be revoked if the conditions aren’t met.
God Revokes His Promises To Eli’s Family
In 1 Samuel 2:30, God acknowledged what he promised Eli then indicates that He’s making a change. He said, “I promised that your branch of the tribe of Levi would always be my priests. But I will honor those who honor me, and I will despise those who think lightly of me” (1 Samuel 2:30 NLT). God went on to revoke that promise saying: “The time is coming when I will put an end to your family, so it will no longer serve as my priests. All the members of your family will die before their time. None will reach old age.” (1 Samuel 2:31)
God made it clear that it was something he promised Eli’s family line but He’s now changing His mind since they were taking Him lightly. God’s condition for honoring people was also made clear. He’ll only honor those that honor him. He also said that those that met the condition of thinking of Him lightly, will be despised by Him.
Other Examples of God’s Conditional Promises
The story of Eli and his sons isn’t the only story in The Bible that shows the conditional nature of God’s promises. Here are a few examples that reveal the same:
In many of God’s promises, though it may be phrased differently, you can find a condition. In the story of Eli and his sons, it was phrased as “I will do X for those that do Y”. In the examples of Abraham and the Israelites above, it was phrased as “If you obey me, I will do X.
3. God’s Punishments Can Impact Generations
The last lesson we’ll look at from the story of Eli and his sons is that God’s punishments can impact generations (his blessings also!). The actions of Eli and his sons did not only affect them but their family also.
God Punishes Eli’s Family
When God declared the punishment for the actions of Eli and his sons he said: “The time is coming when I will put an end to your family, so it will no longer serve as my priests. All the members of your family will die before their time. None will reach old age. You will watch with envy as I pour out prosperity on the people of Israel. But no members of your family will ever live out their days. The few not cut off from serving at my altar will survive, but only so their eyes can go blind and their hearts break, and their children will die a violent death.” (1 Samuel 2:31-33)
Eli and his sons’ actions were so severe to God that the consequences went beyond them. Members of his family were going to be subject to punishments for things they did not do themselves.
Some might argue that it’s not fair that Eli and his sons’ family members were also punished. That’s an understandable argument. But if we don’t question when God blesses family members because of one person then we shouldn’t question that he punishes because of one.
It’s like how the entire human race was punished because of Adam’s sin in the beginning. Even though Adam did, according to Romans 5:19, Jesus’ actions made things right again. It says: “For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous.” (Romans 5:19)
Unexplained Blessings or Curses
Knowing this truth, unexplained blessings or curses in our lives may be caused by the actions of those that came before us. Based on the story of Eli and his sons, just like we can inherit a physical illness through genetics, it’s possible to inherit spiritual blessings or curses. While we may not know for sure if we are experiencing a generational blessing or curse, we can definitely live a righteous life in an effort to be a blessing to those that come after us.
It takes one generation to change the course of your family. Obedience brings blessing, disobedience brings punishment. Fathers, let's join together in prayer for one another!
Dear Father, give us wisdom. Fill us with your Spirit and give us the fortitude to remain faithful to you and our family, no matter what. Amen.
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